i didnt want to reply to this thread(and the ones your posted for this new year), but here goes anyways..
1. i dont think every person you encounter will have the same ideas as you re polyamory. a lot of people will still be into it for the free sex only.
2. you can bring in a lot of toxicity(not to mention VD) into your life.
3. i am not convinced that erin is comfortable with this.
4. the one thing that made you icky to me was not that you wanted to experiment with polyamory, but your choice to make it a blog post. not classy.
5. somehow i found your previous posts extremely juvenile and immature. like a teenager is going through a mid life crisis.
6. i feel that you have done a great injustice to erin..not so much in making this decision, but in letting everyone know about it. you have broken a very important rule in any relationship..you have destroyed what is sacred about trust. i am sad because i dont think you can ever fix this. regardless of how this experiment ends.
good luck.
p.s. forgive my ignorance, but whats with the 11.11 deal?
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