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ericabiz · 01-03-2009, 06:58 AM

Hi Steve,

I've been reading this with interest, but haven't been inclined to comment so far. In an earlier thread, you somewhat sarcastically asked us to make predictions, and I thought that would be fun, so here's what I have to offer.

In this blog post, you wrote: "With respect to physical intimacy, I’m only interested in connecting with women. That’s simply where my heart leads. ... In some ways the intimacy I share with men doesn’t go as deep as what I experience with women."

My prediction, based solely on my intuition (which previously has been uncannily right about you), is that this particular aspect will change dramatically for you as you go deeper into polyamory -- in ways you can't now foresee.

You're going to develop some amazing relationships with men through this, on a far deeper plane than you have yet experienced, and possibly far more intimate than you feel is possible right now. As you connect with women, so it will be with men.

This may be one of the biggest shifts you will experience through polyamory.

I look forward to reading more. Enjoying your blog, as always.

-Erica

01-03-2009, 06:58 AM	#5 (permalink)
ericabiz Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 137	Hi Steve, I've been reading this with interest, but haven't been inclined to comment so far. In an earlier thread, you somewhat sarcastically asked us to make predictions, and I thought that would be fun, so here's what I have to offer. In this blog post, you wrote: "With respect to physical intimacy, I’m only interested in connecting with women. That’s simply where my heart leads. ... In some ways the intimacy I share with men doesn’t go as deep as what I experience with women." My prediction, based solely on my intuition (which previously has been uncannily right about you), is that this particular aspect will change dramatically for you as you go deeper into polyamory -- in ways you can't now foresee. You're going to develop some amazing relationships with men through this, on a far deeper plane than you have yet experienced, and possibly far more intimate than you feel is possible right now. As you connect with women, so it will be with men. This may be one of the biggest shifts you will experience through polyamory. I look forward to reading more. Enjoying your blog, as always. -Erica Last edited by ericabiz; 01-03-2009 at 07:00 AM.