[QUOTE=jacki;283436]domestic violenc..do you put up with it?
for me it has do do with the situation.
i would never tolart it from my partner.
The situation Im in is one to tolerate however I cant help but think tell him OUT! I see the co dependence that I hang on to. im mid 30's his 12 yrs my senior and I dont want to lose that. (Him) our relationship.but in the state I look right now I think why? Despite this I do not wish to seek another relationship nor be alone. Am I fearing been alone to much??