I don't dislike you. But I don't agree with this post, so perhaps you now dislike me?
Why would someone post about an unresolved conflict if they didn't want others' suggestions?
Why is it the assumption those giving replies are doing it only for ego? Or that every misunderstanding about a situation is because people are lazy and are giving quick, fake replies? That's really a negative view of fellow members, isn't it?
How can you judge others' real intentions? On behalf of the board members, I see a lot of good people giving their time, thought, and knowledge to help others. I think there are some great people here! Sure, misunderstandings happen, but isn't that the nature of the internet? I've only been here a little while and already I feel like I've made some good friends. I like it when people disagree with me; it makes me explore my own beliefs & knowledge further. I haven't had need yet to ask for a lot of advice, but if I did, I'm sure that I would get some great answers. There are some really smart, caring people here, and I don't understand why you're not seeing that?
You're frustrated because you feel people are being condescending; however, at the same time you say others are "fake", not "being ourselves", "playing" a role, and not a part of "humanity". Maybe you don't realize it, but by addressing an entire board and saying such things, these words sound a bit condescending.
I honestly don't understand this post. I see you're unhappy, but I am not sure what you'd prefer we do?
