I second Fullcrum's suggestions. And if you are willing to drop some cash, I recommend getting a copy of the Blueprint Decoded DVD program by RSD (it is $600 though). I think a book version of it will be coming out in a few months which should be more affordable.
Edit: Here are some preview videos you might want to check out
YouTube - The Blueprint Decoded - Day 1 Preview YouTube - The Blueprint Decoded - Day 2 Preview YouTube - The Blueprint Decoded - Day 3 Preview YouTube - The Blueprint Decoded - Day 4 Preview
Also, I suggest reading Eckhart Tolle's books to learn to be present and spontaneous during interactions.
The most important thing is to get massive social experience under your belt. Strive for at least 10 hours of interacting with women for every hour you spend reading.
My #1 recommendation would be to do a 30 day trial where you approach 5 women a day.