Violence and verbal abuse are way to express the intensity and emotion of the masculine energy.
The person inflicting the abuse needs to learn to channel this intensity into something constructive. The chances are he bottles up this intensity until he explodes and expresses it as physical violence or verbal abuse.
He would have to learn how to honor the feminine energy with his masculine energy. If he looses this intensity the passion in the relationship dies.
Tell him to read 'The Way of the Superior Man' by David Deida
The abuse is not your fault he just doesn't know how to deal with wildness and spontaneity of the feminine energy
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May I have another Mam?
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