Hi Steve!
No judgements here, but... a real question.
Someone in the other thread brought this up. Your posts seem to imply that you can only have deep, meaningful connections with women.
The logic goes something like this:
- I want to experience more love, more deep connection.
- I have too much love for one person, I can not fully express all of the love I feel capable of without overwhelming my partner.
- When I connect emotionally, the physical connection - via sex - is the natural outcome
- I can't imagine having a deep emotional connection without the physical, which is why I'm interesting in experimenting with other relationships...)
That's what I read (paraphrased, of course!).
If the natural result, for you, of close connection is sex... where does that leave you with relationships with other men? Do you believe it's possible to have deep, meaningful, emotionally connected relationships with other men?
And, I'm curious if others see a similar dynamic in their own lives? My rational side believes we should be able to have these deep connections with anyone, no sex necessary
- but honestly, I think for the most part my most meaningful relationships have been with males (and I'm female).