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WhteRabbit · 01-02-2009, 05:32 AM

I'm a very jealous person which maybe due to my low self-esteem. How do I get over being jealous and mainly suspiscious?

My partner has stated that he's never cheated on any of his girlfriends and all the people that know him best concur.

I just don't want the wool to be pulled over my eyes, so to speak! I don't want to get stuck in a relationship when I feel that there's something wrong and to later regret not ending it. I fear this. But apparently, according to my boyfriend and everyone else associated with the situation, I'm way over the top, I ask too many questions and have WAY too many suspiscions. I'm just driving this relationship into the ground.

I need advice. How to slay the green-eyed monster? I don't want to be jealous, and it's easy I guess, JUST DON'T BE JEALOUS! But it's not that easy for me... some help? anyone?

01-02-2009, 05:32 AM	#1 (permalink)
WhteRabbit Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 33	Struggling with the green-eyed monster I'm a very jealous person which maybe due to my low self-esteem. How do I get over being jealous and mainly suspiscious? My partner has stated that he's never cheated on any of his girlfriends and all the people that know him best concur. I just don't want the wool to be pulled over my eyes, so to speak! I don't want to get stuck in a relationship when I feel that there's something wrong and to later regret not ending it. I fear this. But apparently, according to my boyfriend and everyone else associated with the situation, I'm way over the top, I ask too many questions and have WAY too many suspiscions. I'm just driving this relationship into the ground. I need advice. How to slay the green-eyed monster? I don't want to be jealous, and it's easy I guess, JUST DON'T BE JEALOUS! But it's not that easy for me... some help? anyone?