My ex was a bit like that. It did not occur to me in the beginning of our relationship that it was a problem as I also had a good career and made as much money as he did. For a while I actually made more money than him. When we get married and have children, I took the back seat to take care of the family and that was when his career overtook mine and hence his income. He really show his true color during the last part of our relationship. Scheming away our money for his "business". When we got divorced I have $500 in my bank account. I had to turbo charge my career in a hurry in order to keep a roof over our heads and to provide my children with some stability.
People who put too much emphasis on money are not good to be around. Watch for the tell tales sign before it is too late. It does not matter how much money a guy have, it what he does with it that counts. And if he is not willing to share his wealth with the people he loves. Then I would stay away from him.
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