I second what legend said:
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If you do not want to be in your marriage leave it.... this gives Erin the chance to blame you... Stay in this polymoronic thing and she will forever be blaming herself......wondering where she fell short in filling your needs...
I for one would much rather read about how a thinking man deals with these feelings and is able to maintain a vibrant monogamous relationship....
You can call it evolved human nature but in fact it's the same game that's been played throughout the ages.... Your cake and eat it too....
People will be hurt.....
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I notice almost all the comments on this post have been positive, but I found this post to be sickening on so many levels. I cried after I read it.
This isn't love. It's ego, pride, selfishness and greed.
My guess is that you didn't have any experience with women prior to meeting Erin but now that you've got some fame and success under your belt, you want to sew some wild oats.
I too knew something was up when you started referencing The Game and lingo from pick-up artists. Just what the world doesn't need: one more pick-up artist...and another broken family. As another poster pointed out, the last thing women need is another man willing to share his penis with us...and think he's doing a big favor. You mentioned in one of the comments that you might delete the paragraph where you wrote that sharing yourself physically would cause women to really get what you are trying to teach them, but it's already been said.
If this is where personal development leads, what's the point?
Your post reads like some giddy kid being let loose in a candy store, but like all kids in candy stores, that thing that feels so good at first taste, has consequences. It's like what happens to all people who succumb to temptation. They get burned and you will too. It's just unfortunate you have to take your wife and kids down with you.
This will hurt Erin more than you will ever know. She loves you and wants to protect her kids. She will contort herself into all kinds of shapes to keep her family together. You're taking for granted the good you have in your relationship with Erin and thinking you will get that plus something more elsewhere. But at what price to Erin and your children? Once again, I second Legend. The real journey of truth, love and power would be to explore how to maintain a vibrant monogamous relationship.
You can couch all this in intellectual terms, but at the end of the day, you're just another horny guy thinking with his nether regions. There's nothing enlightened about this.