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debbiedoesraw · 01-01-2009, 07:07 PM

Hey Steve
I admit, I was a bit taken aback at your 'focus". I do believe that lots of folks would do this, and some do, if they could stay married and keep their kids around.
All I will say is this: Please don't let this affect your kids. I have been in court over custody for my step daughter for over ten years. If you do divorce, please for the love of god stay out of court. It is a soul and bank account killer. My SD is so damaged, she has been in therapy since six, and she is still suicidal and depressed at 17 1/2.
Kids need two parents, in my opinion. Sure, you can play, just don't let them suffer because of it.
just my opinion, having been a veteran of the war and seen the collateral damage.
deb

01-01-2009, 07:07 PM	#63 (permalink)
debbiedoesraw Banned Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 9	your kids Hey Steve I admit, I was a bit taken aback at your 'focus". I do believe that lots of folks would do this, and some do, if they could stay married and keep their kids around. All I will say is this: Please don't let this affect your kids. I have been in court over custody for my step daughter for over ten years. If you do divorce, please for the love of god stay out of court. It is a soul and bank account killer. My SD is so damaged, she has been in therapy since six, and she is still suicidal and depressed at 17 1/2. Kids need two parents, in my opinion. Sure, you can play, just don't let them suffer because of it. just my opinion, having been a veteran of the war and seen the collateral damage. deb