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Old 01-01-2009, 04:41 PM   #49 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by fdr View Post
that you have the time to devote to multiple intimate relationships. In my own experience with polyamory, even more than the reassuring-one's-primary-partner issue, I found the biggest issue was time management.
Yes, you have finite time and energy. And you eventually run into hard limits (at least in this physical world). But I think we'll extended ourselves through technology, and polyamory will be much easier and more wide spread in the future.

But even when polyamory runs into that limit, I still embrace it today. But I see how it couldn't scale past a certain number of parters.

I still identify with monogamy, at least for this point in history. Monogamy is like a conclusion. And when done right it's like solving a math problem.
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