While you can argue that monogamy is not natural it is in fact the highest evolution we currently have in conscious thinking relationships....
People on this forum throw social conditioning around like it's the anti-christ. The fact is good or bad it does exist in all of us and because of this people will be hurt.
If you do not want to be in your marriage leave it.... this gives Erin the chance to blame you... Stay in this polymoronic thing and she will forever be blaming herself......
wondering where she fell short in filling your needs...
I for one would much rather read about how a thinking man deals with these feelings and is able to maintain a vibrant monogamous relationship....
You can call it evolved human nature but in fact it's the same game that's been played throughout the ages.... Your cake and eat it too....
People will be hurt.....
I know you have made up your mind...
Good Learning.... Some lessons have to be learned the hard way
Much Love
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