 Enmeshment and Co-dependence
Hi Steve,
What a terribly courageous post on your relationship with Erin. With all due respect, it sounds like enmeshment and co-dependence. No woman, or number of woman will satisfy that feeling inside you until you can satisfy it yourself.
When Erin can only handle a certain amount of love you are pouring into her, she is in effect holding her own boundaries, a very healthy thing to do.
This is not an easy situation, good on you for being honest enough to do something about it, although, in my opinion, whatever that is worth, it will not fill that 'hole'. All the best in your endeavours
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