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Old 12-31-2008, 11:05 PM   #7 (permalink)
jaamkie
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Originally Posted by Angela View Post
Because your desire for her is obvious and palpable, you are not a good match for her for a loving, long-term mutually beneficial relationship (LLTMBR) like marriage. Her lesson now is to choose someone for whom her value is in question, and you just don't fit that bill.
I don't disagree with the overall advice here, but these are an interesting pair of sentences... you're suggesting that obvious desire for your partner would make someone not a good match for marriage? or that we should choose to be with people who we're not sure want to be with us? I'm curious about the philosophy behind this...?
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