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Originally Posted by jasper666  Because that is a loss. Loss of a relationship is a threat to many parts of us. Our natural mammalian bonding instincts, our needs for safety and belonging, and on top of that all the ways we were wounded, abandoned, or made to feel defective as children by our parents. It adds up. |
Its not really loss.
Say if
Your girlfriend went away, got with another guy came back and you found out.
You knew that she was going away anyway But you dont feel loss from her being with someone else as you couldnt have been with her anyway if she had to go away.
