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Originally Posted by joelyle  Hi,
Happy New Year! Sorry to see you are at an impasse in your relationship. I am always curious what the basis/foundation of a relationship is? What is it that brought you together....some passion you share? In my way of thinking an affair is more about allegiance than physical activity (I say this from personal experience). Do you feel your passions are multiplied (or divided) by being with him. I am not sure one indiscretion constitutes bad faith. Can you be yourself with him or must you become someone else? Take care. Thanks for your contribution to these forums. |
I don't think we started out the best way. We were both there, there was attraction, we jumped in. Neither of us was ready for it or truly available for a LLTMBR. But I think that's where we are actually headed now surprisingly enough.