An equal partner is not about finances or giving to the relationship the exact same thing. It's suppose to be about balance and an exchange of energy. Just like if one person has a skill, such as fixing household items, while the other cooks. There's no reason if you can't afford to, why he should expect you to pay when he has significantly more money. You can do other things to compensate. That's how relationships work. Each person uses their strengths, skills and knowledge to the best of their ability. If he doesn't believe you aren't with him for the money, then he just isn't right for you. When there are problems because of an insignificant issue like this, it's definitely a sign. There are too many other important things to focus on in a relationship.
Affection/sex should have absolutely nothing to do with whether someone buys you a meal or anything else.
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