Thank you very much for the responses, and I am definitely going to check out that book at my first opportunity.
If I were to go with my gut I'd say that I want to tell her. To me, this is important information, and I don't want to trick her in any way by hiding the truth again. So I guess the question now to Jim's post - when would be appropriate to confess? Like I said, if I am to tell, I don't feel comfortable hiding it for a while until *I* am ready, but then again I truthfully know that what happened in the past is now sealed against the future, and thus possibly trivial?...
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