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Yellow · 12-27-2008, 08:30 AM

I would suggest you just talk to him about it. It is quite likely that he is not aware of this habit. If he is aware then you two can have a very honest conversation about what you value in a relationship and what you don't want.

I have exact same feelings as you do about these games; I can't stand them and don't use them. I don't think this 30 day trial will benefit you or your relationship. If all you want to do is check its effectiveness, I am sure it works for people who don't value honesty in relationships as much. It seems like honesty is important to you. So, if you do, you will be going a step back, in my opinion.

Just talk to him and it will be fine.

12-27-2008, 08:30 AM	#3 (permalink)
Yellow Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 112	I would suggest you just talk to him about it. It is quite likely that he is not aware of this habit. If he is aware then you two can have a very honest conversation about what you value in a relationship and what you don't want. I have exact same feelings as you do about these games; I can't stand them and don't use them. I don't think this 30 day trial will benefit you or your relationship. If all you want to do is check its effectiveness, I am sure it works for people who don't value honesty in relationships as much. It seems like honesty is important to you. So, if you do, you will be going a step back, in my opinion. Just talk to him and it will be fine.