personally as a guy I could care less about the "thrill of the chase", and actually find it very annoying and think "The Rules" is a bunch of crap. However, women seem to respond better towards men who don't cater to them. Those who wait on them hand and foot come off as "needy" which is very unattractive to females. As a result many men develop the habit of acting disinterested; that doesn't mean they enjoy it or mean it. But as they say, old habits die hard. I'd be careful with your "hard to get trial". It could be a benefit, but it could also backfire. Personally, I'd just tell a woman who pulled that kind of thing to "get lost" and I'd find somebody else. But your guy's (and your) mileage might vary. Too many variables...
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