I believe when men or women obtain enlightenment, they can transcend gender differences and accomplish just about anything.
That is my goal. I hope to one day view men as no different than women and vice versa. I hope to find a partner who sees this way as well. I'm just tired of game playing not only from others, but from myself. I try hard to not interact with people based on their gender. If anything, I focus most on a spiritual connection or getting to know what kind of personality they are. It is harder with hotter women though
But something I do to keep myself in check in those situations is to just put think of myself as a goof and totally unmacho. For some reason, this makes me relax around them and I can just chill.