Originally Posted by tintin
yeah tell me about it!
but after celestine prophecy i looked a bit deeper and started seeing this as my control drama.
so my control drama is 'aloof'
which hooks 'interrogators'
nice pay off! ahh all the attention.but the down side is when we dont know that its a drama and it turns into who we think we essentially are.
i think its learned response.and by first getting aware of it just watching yourself.asking what your pay off is one can start to see who we really are and that we are very much 'in the game' as much as the really social types that we despise and secretly yearn to become.
btw are either of your parents 'interrogators'?
Ok, this is interesting. I did read The Celestine Prophecy and even though I learned some things I didn't think much of my
control drama. I am often aloof and just spacy. Actually, I tested (extremely) positive for ADHD.
So, your theory is that it's a self-induced lack of focus in order for others to interrogate me, eh?
Funny cuz my dad is totally self-absorbed. My mom, however, is a caretaker. I guess you could describe her as one who checks to see if you're ok
... which is interesting... In fact, I usually go for motherly, nurturing girls. Coincidence??
Can you tell me anything else about this??????? I'd love to hear more, or at least where else I can look to learn more...