yeah tell me about it!
but after celestine prophecy i looked a bit deeper and started seeing this as my control drama.
so my control drama is 'aloof'
which hooks 'interrogators'
nice pay off! ahh all the attention.but the down side is when we dont know that its a drama and it turns into who we think we essentially are.
i think its learned response.and by first getting aware of it just watching yourself.asking what your pay off is one can start to see who we really are and that we are very much 'in the game' as much as the really social types that we despise and secretly yearn to become.
btw are either of your parents 'interrogators'?