It doesn't seem to me like she snubbed you. You said yourself that her response to the question of why you weren't invited was that you didn't seem to have fun the first time they had you over. Looking at it from where I am, it seems your interpretation of the situation ("I think you're a downer. Stay away.") is way off!
How about this time, even if you can't talk with them about music, you just go with the intent to have fun. Maybe think up some interesting topics to throw into the conversation. You said they're fun. So, go and don't worry so much!
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