jaamkie, I've thought about it for a while and I've come to the conclusion similar to how medical practitioners do: informed consent. Riggs claims to have consent from his gf to help her with this issue. So, he's here getting advice to help her change herself. Is just the way I see it. If my gf was on a board askin for help for somin we've both decided is a good idea to improve, I'd wonder why I didn't do it myself!
There are a number of good books on self-esteem, like the Six Pillars of Self-Esteem. Good luck, Riggs!
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