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robc · 12-22-2008, 03:21 PM

I think this post was started in response to the other thread on what women find unattractive in men.

Women with very low self-esteem would be a major one with me.
Women who actively seek external validation from other men, thrive on it and when they don't have it appear miserable, useless, sad, etc.

Women who exude male energy as opposed to exuding female energy, that would be a major turn off for me too. Being a man and being with a women who exudes more male than female energy is just not comfortable, it almost feels competitive.

Women with a poor sense of humor, can't laugh or smile regularly - that just isn't fun either.

That's a few of them, there may be a few more.

I'm sure the same can be said from a woman's perspective, just switch a few words above and I'm sure this resonates with women as well.

12-22-2008, 03:21 PM	#36 (permalink)
robc Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Canada Posts: 298	well... I think this post was started in response to the other thread on what women find unattractive in men. Women with very low self-esteem would be a major one with me. Women who actively seek external validation from other men, thrive on it and when they don't have it appear miserable, useless, sad, etc. Women who exude male energy as opposed to exuding female energy, that would be a major turn off for me too. Being a man and being with a women who exudes more male than female energy is just not comfortable, it almost feels competitive. Women with a poor sense of humor, can't laugh or smile regularly - that just isn't fun either. That's a few of them, there may be a few more. I'm sure the same can be said from a woman's perspective, just switch a few words above and I'm sure this resonates with women as well.