Well I grew up in Los Angeles and I gotta tell you, there isn't much of a stigma about being gay there. I know there is some, sure, but not like some places around the country.
I happen to love gay men as well. Just knowing they aren't staring at my boobs while we're conversing is a big plus in my book. If my son turned out to be gay, I would have no problem with it whatsoever. As long as he is in a loving relationship and no one is there against their will, I'm happy as a clam. Same for my daughter. People are people, people