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ns123 · 12-19-2008, 08:14 PM

you can send the people you wronged a card or a short letter explaining the act, acknowledging that it was wrong, and asking for forgiveness. Then you can forgive yourself.

Make the card or letter short, to the point, but genuine. like:

Dear Marge,

Back in high school, I stole your notes in geometry class. This was wrong of me, and I realize now that my past actions have hurt others. I wanted to let you know that I have moved on from this type of behavior and that I am very sorry I did this.

Please accept my apologies.
John Smith

Then include your contact information and work on forgiving yourself.

Good on you for recognizing and taking responsibility for your actions, past and present. It shows that you are moving toward becoming your best self. I want to applaud you for that.

12-19-2008, 08:14 PM	#3 (permalink)
ns123 Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Houston, TX Posts: 658	you can send the people you wronged a card or a short letter explaining the act, acknowledging that it was wrong, and asking for forgiveness. Then you can forgive yourself. Make the card or letter short, to the point, but genuine. like: Dear Marge, Back in high school, I stole your notes in geometry class. This was wrong of me, and I realize now that my past actions have hurt others. I wanted to let you know that I have moved on from this type of behavior and that I am very sorry I did this. Please accept my apologies. John Smith Then include your contact information and work on forgiving yourself. Good on you for recognizing and taking responsibility for your actions, past and present. It shows that you are moving toward becoming your best self. I want to applaud you for that.