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Originally Posted by jtracy  ... people don't realize that they have to take concrete action in order to get what they want, that no amount of wanting and/or visualizing will bring it to them. |
I tend to agree in principle, but still think that often wanting
will bring you what you want without having to take action... at most, you will need to have a
reaction. For example, one of my ex girlfriends - she was the one who made the first... few
moves on me. Also, I have thought about joining a dance class for a year, and this year I was invited to join my University's representative team and I now have 3 dance classes a week for free, together with about 30 people, with even gender distribution (which is rare), so about 15 girls, and very good looking, too. All I had to do was show up.