Some people will disagree with me and that's fine, but I believe that you don't just marry a person, you marry into a family, and if the relationship is not mom-approved you are setting yourself up for trouble down the road.
You should help someone for as long as you want to help and can do so with an open and loving heart. When you start harboring frustration and resentment about the helping, it is time to let go. The opposite of guilt is gratitude, so see if you can find all the good things and lessons learned to be grateful for from this relationship.
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