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Originally Posted by driven1  Bliss Sage, thank you for the kind words. In a way, that's the nicest thing anybody's ever said about me.  Ain't gonna lie -- it's been a long road. |
Oh, you're welcome
. It's been a really long road for me too, but now I'm pretty settled in my solitude, forget men and "love" and am finding other things in life. It took me x years to realize there even was a subtext or a game, and when I did, I basically became a recluse. Perpetually being misunderstood takes a toll, so I usually preferred solitude.
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Originally Posted by driven1 And ya know what's sad? If I ever brought up this sort of thing to a woman in real life, especially an attractive woman, she'd probably be thinking, "Bullshiat, he's trying to trick me into bed."  |
Yeah, that is sad. It's sad, too, though, that that a guy might use words, any words, to get a girl to bed. I have a great solution for that, though; I don't sleep with anyone ever
. So I keep my virtue and my self-respect, even if I might fall in love with a deceptive idiot who only wanted to have sex with me--I get my heart broken and he doesn't get his screw [He goes to get his screw somewhere else, but I'm left with a broken heart].
Some men can become so fixated on wanting to screw one girl in particular, he will humiliate himself over and over--I used to feel that men were like wind-up toys. A few I knew were. No matter how badly I turned them down and insulted them, he would always come back and try again after anywhere from a week to a few months. It becomes a cycle.