you are not and never was a loser
just a person trying to overcome a tough deal you were dealt
knowing that you are aware of your temper is good -it means you can work on that
I know you will do well because the 1st step is acknowledging the things you need to change
I know my kids will have a tough time too
due to a mixed up alcoholic father but I will be there for them and will offer all my support and love to them
I wish you peace ,joy and love