"I'm in fact severly fighting the urge to angrily blurt out a name for you."
... Damn! ...
I mean why the negative reaction? you have the right to disagree, but I don't get why people tend to get angry so easily about this...
I can't picture someone getting angry at a women to letting her date pay the restaurant, which cost represents let's say a certain percentage of the man's whole means. Some broke guys will take a girl to dinner and spend their free money for two weeks on it, still that's accepted: it's the guy's will and the lady might or not know. Then what if all the guy wants to offer me represents for him smaller or same percentage of his money than a restaurant and movie date?
Is there an acceptable amount or percentage of money and/or worth from gifts recieved I shall not bypass? if there is one, how much? why? it would make me happy? it's too easy?
I think this part is up to him. He knows his finances and how to manage them pretty well.
The real issue here I think is playing the guy in order to get what you want or not. It's easy to take a descision on that, clearly I won't play him, and i hope he won't play me either. So I think I need to ask myself if I am strong minded enough to say no and goodbye if ever things turn sour.
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