I totally agree with your sentiment. I don't care what people said, just because you are in a steady relationship does not mean that you can stop taking care of yourself and become a big fat slop. It happens a lot, you see a nice attractive girl, she get married, fast forward a couple years after a kid, poof she is now a big fat housewife. And then wonder why the husband is having affair.
What is wrong with our society that makes us become lazy, addicted to food adn then justify that it is OK to become fat because we are happy the way we are and still demand that our partners to love us regardless of our size. And may be they so but do we love ourselves enough to get off our butt and do something about our health and appearance.
Trust me, I know what I am talking about. I have been there before. I got fat and contented in our relationship. And there is no way in the world that I would let myself go back there again. eeeccckkk...
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