it looks to me like you're here seeking an excuse to pick the easy road out and take the money. like you need us to justify it and say that it's ok.
I think you're doing this because you know deep down this would be wrong. you see a weakness in a man that likes you, and that is unaware of having that weakness. and now he offers you the chance to exploit him. yes, he's setting himself up, yes, he has limiting beliefs, yes he's blind to his own behaviour. but you who see it clearly, instead of sitting him down and telling him what you see, you're thinking you 'don't even like him that much' so if he's dumb why not just use it.
look, the only thing that can stop you is your own set of morals and ethics. I know mine would make me horrified by the mere idea of kicking a guy when he's down (and doesn't even know it). especially if the motive was easy financial gain. especially since you know he sincerely wants to help you. hell, they're making me horrified to even read this. but that's me, and you have no reason to care for me and my ethical standards.
though you might want to ask yourself how much of your business is your business if the starting capital are means gained through dating, with the full intention to break off the dating once means are provided for. and what business you're in.
so do what is most true for your ethical standards. (but do NOT come to me for any sort of approval, I will grant you none. I'm in fact severly fighting the urge to angrily blurt out a name for you. if you wanted to get approval, you have a PUA up there granting it so there you go.)
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