Hi everyone
I'm new to this forum, even though I've been reading Steve's blog for quite a while now. I am a student from Montreal and I've recently been struggling with an ethic relationship issue.
See, my boyfriend is quite rich. By this I mean he has enough to live of savings for at least 20 years, I guess. When we started dating a month or two ago, I was aware that his job paid well, but not to this extend. What's wrong? he has been played big time before by some previous gfs that only wanted money. See, I do not encourage this, but to me it see he WANTS to be played... I mean he pickes the helpless insecure girl cute girl and offers her the world... what do you exept might happen?
Now he wants to help me with tuition, groceries, starting my business... and I just don't know what to decide. I'm not the kind of girl that will live of someone like that, I can really use some help of course, but I won't feel I owe him if he gives it to me, he gave it to me. I won't feel obligagted in the relation no matter how much he pours over me. I love to do things by myself and I am very independent. However he seems to be looking for that at-home girlie girl who loves to shop Vuitton and Chanel Hm, ok not me, I have my own fashion label and it's all I wish for
So the point is, should I accept his help even though I know I don't like him that much cause I feel he unconsciously tries to gain considerable control over my life, or should I tell him no thanks?
What about the whole sugar daddy thing anyway? I secretly think sometimes: "Hey, if he's stupid enough to give me the money in the first place and think it's gonna make me his... to bad for him!"
I could give a lot more insight on the situation but that treath is long enough for a first one ever
Thank you!