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Originally Posted by Rockchick26 I don't know about Sbdiane,but to me,the misfit thing has nothing to do with needing alone time or how we feel when we're alone. It's about how we feel with other people. Other people,maybe without realizing it,say and do things that make us feel like misfits. For one example,almost every group of friends i've had have picked on me,teased me,called me "freak",shake their head and say "only you!". These things are another way of saying "wow i cant believe how different you are from all of us,but thanks for being our source of amusement!" Like i said,it doesn't help when one of your parents even says these things about you. |
that's sad and I feel bad for you
I think that anyone who is different than the 'norm' are looked upon unfavorably
I have kids but I have been the topic of conversation in my family since they were born because I raise mine 'different ' than anyone else in my family
examples are : I homeschool and I do not use the typical plan that they use in schools here
I teach my kids about the real world and life
I did not get my kids baptized in the catholic religion and I do not go to church I teach my children that they have choices about god and religion and it WILL NOT be forced down their throats by me
I am the blacksheep for that one big time !
there are so many ways I do not fit in
my sisters both have friends that they have had since grade school
I don't
I do not make friends easily because I feel so different from people =
I am not Suzy homemaker
I do not have a husband or BF
now I have no job
my family cannot understand why I don't want to use my nursing degree anymore to slave away in a hospital setting for 12 hours a day doing work I don't like
I don't feel like I have to apologize for that anymore
I am not and never will be a people person-I don't have the desire for it
okay I have taken over sorry
please do not feel like misfits
you are just different
and that's what makes the world go around
what kind of music do you guys play ?