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zeroone · 01-02-2007, 05:55 PM

From the words of Alan Watts:

Instead of "Are you playing with me or are you serious?" say "Are you toying with me or are you sincere?"

I advice for you to just be honest and talk with her. Tell her what it is that is making you feel that way but make it clear that you don't want to feel that way. Ask her to help you. Maybe that she's doing something that's bothering you, like talking to her guy "friends" a little too much.

01-02-2007, 05:55 PM	#6 (permalink)
zeroone Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 28	From the words of Alan Watts: Instead of "Are you playing with me or are you serious?" say "Are you toying with me or are you sincere?" I advice for you to just be honest and talk with her. Tell her what it is that is making you feel that way but make it clear that you don't want to feel that way. Ask her to help you. Maybe that she's doing something that's bothering you, like talking to her guy "friends" a little too much.