I don't know about Sbdiane,but to me,the misfit thing has nothing to do with needing alone time or how we feel when we're alone. It's about how we feel with other people. Other people,maybe without realizing it,say and do things that make us feel like misfits. For one example,almost every group of friends i've had have picked on me,teased me,called me "freak",shake their head and say "only you!". These things are another way of saying "wow i cant believe how different you are from all of us,but thanks for being our source of amusement!" Like i said,it doesn't help when one of your parents even says these things about you.
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