when you come on to this path.its like a call.to me it feels like one.feels strange since sometimes you have no clue as to where its leading.but its a magnet pull.no way but forward.and its sad that some relationships stop working like before because the other wont pick up the gauntlet.it seems natural to oneself.but leaves the other bewildered hurt abandoned.
right now what is important for you wud be described as a 'trip' by some.
please blink and do see where this is leading.
i hope the marriage has got strong roots to survive this.
stay real okay and try not to use this as an excuse for glossing over underlying issues in the marriage.
i know i sound mean.
im going thru this thas why.