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frntk · 12-17-2008, 10:24 PM

Thanks ns123 for your reply.

I understand what you say, intellectually. However, In my heart is hard to let her go, specially because I know that she wants to be a better person - and that I could help her. Of course, no amount of help will do any good to her if she doesn't take the decisions...

Today, during the whole day, I've been having this thought: "I'm being selfish by not being more supportive and understanding. Maybe my approach wasn't good enough when I tried to help her... maybe I should be willing to accept that she's not ready for some of the things she wants to do, and stay with her to help her."

Again, intellectually I understand that I have no obligation to help her. But it's so hard to me now to gather the strength necessary to act against "my heart".

Now... what does LLTMBR mean?

12-17-2008, 10:24 PM	#3 (permalink)
frntk Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 16	Thanks ns123 for your reply. I understand what you say, intellectually. However, In my heart is hard to let her go, specially because I know that she wants to be a better person - and that I could help her. Of course, no amount of help will do any good to her if she doesn't take the decisions... Today, during the whole day, I've been having this thought: "I'm being selfish by not being more supportive and understanding. Maybe my approach wasn't good enough when I tried to help her... maybe I should be willing to accept that she's not ready for some of the things she wants to do, and stay with her to help her." Again, intellectually I understand that I have no obligation to help her. But it's so hard to me now to gather the strength necessary to act against "my heart". Now... what does LLTMBR mean?