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Old 12-17-2008, 10:13 PM   #6 (permalink)
tintin
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uh...a word in for the wife..?
shes probably very insecure
is this overtaking your life?(as in are you moving around with a halo roun your head?giving saintly advice when others are losing it)
does she feel shes losing the person she married....(who is this guy anyways?)

1-tone down! youre scaring her
2-if your inner reality has changed, hers hasnt..so ease her into your new perspective, balance it out.if she sees that this change is giving her something, adding value to the marriage..increasing her value in your life she might ..in fact join in! for eg.if th communication or the love making post your changes are better than before
3-please dont withdraw.whatever youre learning now...its going to really be tested when you 'practice' and if shes withdrawn herself by the time youre back from your cave ....youll have no one to come back to
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