You make a lot of assumptions. Why do you think I am trying to convince you of anything?
Having a conversation, in my world, doesn't mean trying to convince anybody of anything. It means exchanging opinions and points of view.
Since you ask... the reason why I responded was to provide another point of view so that you could examine it and decide if it works for you or not, not to prove your points wrong. In fact your points are "right". If you state that your point of view is the only point of view that is right, then I disagree, but I don't really want to change it either. I am giving you seeds to expand your horizons. Your choice to throw them away, or make them grow. I have no expectations of either. Why I do this? Because I decided to do so. It makes me happy and helps me grow as well.
The reason why I blog and provide my points of view is to learn from others that might show me different points of view and help me grow. It is also to share the results of my inner research, which might benefit others.
The reality interpretation you provide is a very good description (in the sense that you phrased it and described it very well) of the classic "first level of reality" interpretation, which is the most common everyday interpretation that most people believe in (although they might not be able to describe it as well).
I do agree with it, and it is effective at times to think that way. I also think that to grow you need to be able to switch point of view when it is most effective to do so. We do not live in a simple three dimensional world. We live in a multi dimensional world, if you let it be so. When you do, horizons open up and growth occurs.
Since you create your reality, any point of view you take is "right" in your reality. What you have to watch for, in my opinion, is limiting beliefs, not wrong beliefs (limiting beliefs are beliefs that are not effective for you). You can decide to grow, or to stay where you are. I am not claiming that what I tell you would make you grow, I am claiming that it is your decision to examine what I am saying and that decide if it is effective for you or not. If it is not, then move on
Your decision. I have no control on that, nor I want any control over that either even if it was possible to gain it.
A belief is something that you believe true, how can that be wrong? If I "proved your wrong" I would not have done anything except influencing your decision that your belief was wrong. I find that it is not effective for anybody, and most of the time doesn't work in the long term for the person that became convinced either.
People get in places when they want to and when they are ready for it, not when somebody push them there. People learn because they get somewhere on their own, if they decide to explore. Explorers are not pushed, they seek.
From my point of view taking a standpoint and claiming that everything else is wrong is limiting, not wrong. I follow the "Law of Truth", which states that
effectiveness is the measure of truth. True for me is what is effective in my subjective reality, and not what is "true" in some illusion of objective reality.
Your point of view is what the ancient wisdom of the Huna System calls the "first level of reality". There are many other levels that most people ignore. If observing other points of view is not effective for you, than don't. The issue is that until you do, you don't know.
I hope it makes sense.