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Originally Posted by TektonikShift  She just said she feels that way, has too many confused thoughts, but is sure that I cannot change. That I am "just the way I am". As I said, quite adamantly resistant. She has taken those decisions, ok, but I am pretty sure there has either been some misunderstanding, or - as some of you suggested - she is not revealing all the reasons for dumping me.
If only I could somehow find out these reasons... |
The girl is confused! She has given you all you need to know. She probably doesn't even know the real reasons herself, and I don't see how you are going to help the matter. Do you really care about
her? Let her be. Let her work it out- if you remain open to her, maybe she'll figure it out and come back to you. Maybe not. I don't know all that much about NLP, I'll be honest, so help me out: How do you see it working for you in this situation? Maybe you can illicit
some kinds of change that way. But when you are dealing with someone who is "resistant" I would say you are barking up the wrong tree. Accept reality for what it is, and work with what you've got in front of you.