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Originally Posted by TektonikShift  The traditional answer will probably be: by not being a people-pleaser and learning how to be less insecure and more confident, authoritarian, etc.
But success might not be guaranteed... Is there really no NLP-shortcut, as in for speed seduction and all those other things everyone seems to use so successfully? |
No, there is no easy solution. Self-improvement is a lot more than trickery. You'll notice that many of those people who profess speed seduction are miserable people who can't sustain long-term relationships. Trickery may work at first, but apparently your purposeful coyness with your girlfriend ended up backfiring. In the long term, relationships are about what kind of person you are and all that trickery just gets in the way.