The relationship ended because it was not going well. I am truly curious as to why you want to get back together.
Relationships are like a dance; it takes two to tango. You might spend all day intending for the other person to love you, but it is futile. It is not your responsibility to have her open up to you.
You are only responsible for what you do, for your gift to her. If what you want is to get back together, then it is up to you to take action. You can open your heart and give your love in this way, coming from a place of integrity and wholeness. This is the only way to allow the romance to come back in.
Her response is completely up to her. Bear in mind that your intent is strong, but her free-will is stronger. Respect her decision and act accordingly. If you truly love her, then you will be able to let her go just as much as you want her to be with you.
Un abrazo,
Diego
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