You could be at the end of the relationship, or you could just be at the final straw. From what it sounds like he hasn't made up his mind yet which it is. Make note that if you do make it through you can never say something like that again. Bipolar disorder is not an excuse for you to say hurtful things to your partner. If he has told you continually before that not to do something and you continued to do it you can see why he's so angry. More importantly- why haven't you already addressed the problem? I'm surprised you weren't seeing a counselor before? Maybe a regular appointment with one would help you with weekly frustrations.
Maybe writing out a contract with him and yourself and putting it on the fridge to show your seriousness?
Last edited by spookie149; 12-17-2008 at 03:47 AM.
Reason: added some more thoughts
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