Look... I am already quite familiar with that kind of reasoning. I have been through several break-ups already... I tagged NLP et al. with the catch-all term "mind tools" simply because it was the first word that came into my mind
So what all of you are saying is that NLP works only with new people, to seduce women who barely know you, but not on people whom you have already established emotions and a personal history with?
That's pretty sad... Actually the books I read gave a different impression. Is there
really really really no way to build on/"reframe" negative emotions into good ones and thereby circumvent all the "traditional" relationship norms?
She didn't elaborate. She just said she feels that way, has too many confused thoughts, but is sure that I cannot change. That I am "just the way I am". As I said, quite adamantly resistant. She has taken those decisions, ok, but I am pretty sure there has either been some misunderstanding, or - as some of you suggested - she is not revealing all the reasons for dumping me.
If only I could somehow find out these reasons...