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Originally Posted by TektonikShift 
P.S.: Well, if she's hiding something from me, can't I use some technique to elicit the other true reasons she broke up for?
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Have you asked her to elaborate? These "mind tools" as you call them (which, just for the record, sounds creepy) are no substitute for good communication in a relationship.
If you really want to know, and if you really desire a relationship with this person, I would work on the communication. Ask...without expecting any outcome.
And if she tells you that she wants you to change x, really ask yourself if that is something you don't like about yourself. What I am saying is that it is fine and well to be flexible and open change, but don't do it just to please someone else. Conversely, I wouldn't try to use mind tools to bend someone else to your will. Be your own person, walk your own path, you'll have a better chance attracting someone who is content to walk by your side.